Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[Catholic_Lady]

If we go down this path, we’ll be needing consent forms. No, thanks.

Nah, this is the future, there's an app for that (at least, there will be in a few weeks): https://legalfling.io

Wow, seriously??

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I think the semantics over it being 'assault' is a distraction.  I think the issue is whether it's a problem and how to deal with it, which I don't think the divide is as big.  Where I see the difference is Shell B wanting women to chiefly be responsible, and others wanting the responsibility to be shared more?  So for all the back and forth, I don't think anyone is too far apart in the end.

I can’t speak for ShellBs, but it’s incredibly difficult for me to empathize with women, like this gal, who have such a hard time vocalizing themselves in these situations.  I just can’t fathom allowing my date to grope me; I can’t imagine not pushing him off or popping him in the nose.  But, that’s no one’s problem but mine I suppose.

Yeah I agree. I've been pressured. I've had guys test their boundaries. I've been put on guilt trips. (All before the age of 20 btw)

But I've always said no. And if I would have ever given in and done what they wanted at any point, I'm pretty sure it would never have crossed my mind to have accused them of assaulting me.