Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[Catholic_Lady]

That's the real chestnut for me.  There's no denial of the events, merely the conjecture that everything seemed like it was going great.  His genuine misapprehension ranks up there for the most tragic part of the story.  It seemed normal and fun, to him, lol.   The other bit, about taking time to reflect on her experience of the event..I wonder what his takeaway was.  Is this something he plans to do, again, with the next girl?  Has he weighed it all, found himself clear, and is looking for another girl to give the claw to?  I highly doubt that a person who really is so genuinely tone deaf does something like this as a one off.  How could he have stopped himself, being oblivious?  

-and what to we tell the next girl if she comes out with a similar story?  "Well, you must have known he was a creepy motherfucker?"  Responsibility, folks.

/sadface.

When I was fourteen or so, I sure had to analyze my failures with the gals, and lord knows they were many (and most likely hilarious in hindsight), and figure out what I did wrong. I still didn't have any issue with understanding "I'm uncomfortable" as meaning "no", and there I was, a stupid teenager with pimples and KISS posters on my wall.

How old's this guy? How many blocks has he been around? Do you really need to be told that if she's moving away from you that's not a good sign?

And yeah, he needs to shitcan that "claw" move, at least until the second or third date at Baskin-Robbins when he can at least pretend to be fishing out some pecan praline stuck in her teeth. Sheesh.

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"Disrespecting feelings" goes along with all that.

Not sure about "agenda." It is my opinion.

Pay no attention to the username behind the post.

Uh ok