RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 17, 2018 at 12:06 pm
(This post was last modified: January 17, 2018 at 12:08 pm by Shell B.)
(January 17, 2018 at 5:08 am)Thena323 Wrote: It's amazing to watch people carry on as if they don't remember that "Grace" DID NOT accuse Ansari of RAPE, but of being a pushy, piggy, creep. Perhaps the reason she considered his behavior to be noteworthy, AND the reason why the press saw fit to run the story, was because the guy was clearing misrepresenting himself in purporting to be a staunch ally/supporter of sexual harassment and misconduct awareness.
Like it or not, such blatant hypocrisy on the part of a well-known celebrity is indeed considered newsworthy.
Yet and still, we have many folks, including women (many of whom are sexual assault survivors) enthusiastically try 'Grace" in the Most High Court of Shoulda Woulda Coulda and determine her to be not a victim of anything even resembling mistreatment, due to her personal "failings" and "stupidity", but fail remarkably at holding "poor Aziz" to the same rigorous standards and scrutiny of what "should've" been done.
Unfortunately, it's just not uncommon for some survivors of sexual assault to engage in vehement victim-blaming. They've been socialized to do so, along with everyone else.
Still, it's pretty sickening to watch. Very sad.
She did accuse him of sexual assault.
(January 17, 2018 at 5:28 am)Longhorn Wrote: Lol. I don’t think anyone here called this woman stupid, or Ansari poor. The general consensus on this side of the argument appears to be that he is indeed a creep and that she wasn’t communicative or assertive enough. Argument aside, I find that to be a complete misrepresentation of what people here are saying. Whether they’re women or sexual assault survivors is irrelevant.
And if she didn’t even accuse him of rape, how is this victim blaming done by victims?
Just ignore it. It’s a passive aggressive swing at me. It won’t be logical, just vindictive.
