RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 17, 2018 at 12:46 pm
You didn't shame her, Jack. A. She'll never see this, in all likelihood. B. It's not shaming to say a person could have used their words. Shaming or blaming comes from telling someone it was their fault, especially for something entirely unrelated like what they were wearing, which none of us have been saying. Whether you say no or not is relevant in these date situations. (Of course the same wouldn't apply if some rapist just attacked you out of nowhere. The no is implied.)