Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[paulpablo]

He clearly followed her around the house even as she was clearly trying to impose distance between herself and him.

It may not have been a footrace, but it sure sounds like a chase to me.

I mean, it's his house. He's a minor celebrity. Even if he wasn't, I wouldn't let some person I'd only met twice just wander around my house. The fact that this whole thing apparently went on for 30 minutes just seems odd. She was walking around his house for 30 minutes while he followed? Nothing was said during that time? How many times did she move? Are we talking about her moving back and forth between two spots (i.e. couch and kitchen) or was she going from room to room?

All of those details (which are lacking from her description) are important to the context, because the way she describes it, I just can't even imagine 30 minutes of that without a rational person turning around and saying something.

This pretty much hits the nail on the head as to why I have trouble even commenting on the situation. 

When it's just sentences written down about what was being said, body language and so on, it's really still impossible to understand what happened.

Take for example the quote "I don't want to feel forced because then I'll hate you, and I'd rather not hate you."  I believe a girl could legitimately say that and using body language and vocal tone make that either sound like a serious genuine plea, or like a line of seduction.

I have been way more forceful than this description of what happened, maybe I've just been lucky but every time the girl has been reluctant and I've been forceful it's just resulted in a good time.  

I know girls who've said things along the lines of "I really don't think I'm going to do this." And I've pulled them towards me by their underwear and we've been at it until morning.  And plenty of wrestling matches where I've prevented a girl from moving.
But I think I've probably been told more times that I'm not forceful enough by women, rather than that I'm too forceful.

One thing I'm fairly certain of though is that guys who are 5ft5 and have "the claw" as a foreplay technique, only get blowjobs when they're rich and famous.