Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[John V]

Nor do their friends spontaneously start undressing them.  

Correct, which shows that they both thought they were on a romantic date, and not just friends.

Perhaps she lost interest in sex after first being interested? Perhaps that change of mind came when her clothes were already off?

Seems that way.

I'm pretty sure that getting naked doesn't constitute any form of contractual obligation in any state.

No one has said it does.

So you don't know.

Nope, not 100%, but considering the marble counters, the kitchen floor is a reasonable conclusion.

I see. But just to play along with your assumption: put yourself in her shoes.

OK, in her shoes, at the point that I was getting weirded out and no longer interested, I would have said Sorry, but I'm not interested in going any further or some such, and put my clothes on.

Would you feel comfortable bending over in front of a guy after you'd just spent some time being chased around the house? Especially after he's just offered to bend you over and fuck you? Because those clothes ain't gonna magically fly up onto her body by themselves.

Yeah, that's why you use clear verbal communication instead of wandering around mumbling for a half hour.

Perhaps. Perhaps not. You've got a lot of assumptions built into your judgement of events.

It's not an assumption, it's a reasonable conclusion from the account given.