Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[John V]

It's something everyone (excluding certain mental disabilities) is capable of learning to do.


Yes, I can think of various reasons. But what's the solution?

1. Such women avoid such situations and work on their assertiveness.

2. No man ever knows if what he's doing is acceptable until after the fact.

I think the first is more reasonable.

Of course people are capable of learning to communicate. That doesn't mean that a lot of women do not feel they cannot, or at least it is not clear at first that they can, for the reasons stated by Jack a few posts up. 
Your list is a tiny bit incomplete.

Maybe you're just looking for emotion toward the woman. If she can't communicate clearly in a sexual situation and had a bad experience because of it, I feel bad for her. I just don't see what the practical takeaway from that is other than, such women should avoid such situations until they overcome their barriers to communication.

If you have other options for the list, give them. I'll listen.