Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

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Another suggestion..and it's not aimed at anyone here, but referencing the bj sets a shitty precedent.  Particularly that a rapist could then conceivably be aware that..if he somehow gets a girl to blow him in what people are willing to entertain as a "bad date gone wrong" he can then use that as a way to discredit the larger (and potentially more serious) allegation.

What was the larger in this case? Sending her home in an Uber? Calling her essence?

The bj was referenced because is it relevant in this story. And I don't think if he raped her after, that anyone would say "it's not rape because of the bj" she's still allowed to decline sex after (which she did)

I get your point in that it's sort of an excuse that would go something like "she consented for oral sex therefore i could stick my hand in her mouth that requires less consent" or something along those lines.

But then it's just an endless loop, "we had sex but after, he spooned me and groped my breast which i didn't consent to, so I'm claiming sexual assault"

It needs to be dealt with on a case by case basis and logic needs to be used. Also just general reasoning. If a woman (or man) gives you oral sex it should be obvious that it doesn't mean you get to forcefully have sex with her (him)