RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 17, 2018 at 4:57 pm
(January 17, 2018 at 4:41 pm)alpha male Wrote:(January 17, 2018 at 4:31 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: What might she think of you when she tells you repeatedly that's she's uncomfortable, and you keep knockin' on the door?
That's not what happened:
Quote:“Most of my discomfort was expressed in me pulling away and mumbling. I know that my hand stopped moving at some points,” she said. “I stopped moving my lips and turned cold.”
Whether Ansari didn’t notice Grace’s reticence or knowingly ignored it is impossible for her to say. “I know I was physically giving off cues that I wasn’t interested. I don’t think that was noticed at all, or if it was, it was ignored.”
You missed this part:
Quote:When Ansari told her he was going to grab a condom within minutes of their first kiss, Grace voiced her hesitation explicitly. “I said something like, ‘Whoa, let’s relax for a sec, let’s chill.’”
Not to mention the fact that pulling away is a pretty clear indicator that your moves aren't being received well.