Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[Shell B]

Just for your own future reference, saying, "You said it, not me" is a phrase used to mean, "I agree with you, but I wouldn't have said it." Therefore, your response could have rationally been taken to mean, "Yes, I think him not asking you means he's a rapist, but I don't want to say that." Having clarified that this isn't your first language, it's logical to assume you've heard the phrase before and used it, but didn't fully understand the nuance, and that's perfectly cool. If you didn't mean it that way, and just used the phrase wrong, it's all good. To be fair to myself, though, it was a logical assumption based on the turn of phrase you chose for your post.

To be honest, I never really did think you meant he was a rapist, but were just kind of being a tool. Turned out I was wrong too. Now I think you may have been using the term as a defense, like "I didn't say that. You said that," which would have been more clear. Anyhow, Tibs isn't a rapist. It's all good.