RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 1:15 pm
(January 18, 2018 at 12:55 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:(January 18, 2018 at 12:37 pm)Mermaid Wrote: I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not. I really really hope so.
Imagine this. Two people start making out. Clothes come off. They continue to make out, completely naked. Is it reasonable at that point for one of them to assume that its ok to reach for the others' genetelia?
If you're making out with someone and you both got naked and are making out naked, do you have to ask "may I touch your vagina?" If you do so without asking, is that sexual assault?
As I said before. Getting naked during a make out session certainly sends out a major non verbal cue.
OK, let's assume this is a first encounter between the two people.
I would find it *very* strange if the first thing that is done after removing clothes is to reach for genitals. Instead, I would expect more making out--kissing, touching, exploring and *eventually* after a fairly long bit of interaction *gradually* move to genitals. And even the make-out would be proceeded with an appreciative look and an offer to resume.
Going slowly not only builds up the mood, but it allows for multiple possibilities for stopping the action if someone isn't into it.