RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 10:58 pm
(This post was last modified: January 18, 2018 at 11:01 pm by Catholic_Lady.)
(January 18, 2018 at 10:50 pm)Joods Wrote:(January 18, 2018 at 9:57 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: He was referring to Grace's grief. He's claiming my comment about sexual morality was aimed at her, and that my message was "If Grace had followed my beliefs she wouldn't have been in that situation." He's claiming I'm using Grace's grief to promote Catholicism.
Couldn't be further from the truth of course, but it's always nice to have words shoved into my mouth and twisted to mean something undesirable.
Yeah, I don't even see where you ever indicated anything of the sort. Twisting indeed.
Nope, I said the opposite.
(January 18, 2018 at 10:50 pm)pool the matey Wrote: Yeah, also, the idea of asking permission every step of the way doesn't mean all relationships have to follow it. It means consent CAN go from just a "yes" in the beginning to a "yes" every step of the way. Depends on the girl though, doesn't it? If she's cool with it then there's no problem is there? But if she isn't you can't go "buh janice didn't want me to do that, so I guess Imma rape you teeheehee". Context, numbnuts, depends on the girl, if a girl you're dating wants you to ask every step of the way then you absolutely have to, no "buh buh too much work" or "buh buh kills the mood". Stfu and do it, or foff
If a girl wants you to verbally ask for her consent every step of the way during a sexual encounter, then of course you should. As far as I'm aware though, the vast majority of girls would probably be very much put off by that in the moment.
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