(March 9, 2018 at 9:54 am)notimportant1234 Wrote: I can't find a proper word for this. Personally I don't believe in soul mates, it seems to dull to me and it can be very hard to get out of a relationship with the ideea of a ' soul mate' , I mean you would have to consider that your ex may have been the one and this kimd of thinking could make you act stupid.
What I do consider to be true is compatible personallitys or complementary, a concept wich gives you more space and gives every relationship something unique.
My problem is that I can't find a proper wording for this , something more poetic. Do you have any ideeas ?
The reality is that there is no utopia. Some couples get along better than others, some relationships last longer than others. I had a great relationship with my x wife, but even with that, people can and do eventually grow apart and there does not have to be any blame.
It is what works and is healthy. Not sexy, but far better than chasing a Shakespeare play.
Healthy relationships are one of consent, and when differences come up, and they always will, even in the best of relationships, it becomes about listening, without accusing, and problem solving together.
