I don't think it 'depends' at all. It's part of love. You're thinking, I think, that commitment is something separate.. like you've said, you think people are together and then out of fear try to put a lock on the relationship or love so that it can't escape. I agree. In that case commitment = trap.. everything I can think of as anti love.
So maybe we're both right (back to Giffs priest! LOL), commitment is bad AND good.
So maybe we're both right (back to Giffs priest! LOL), commitment is bad AND good.