About death and the children.

[Madscientist]

It must really suck (and that's a gross understatement I'm sure!) if your wife can't be reasoned with AT ALL....it's important to try and find some good advice and get some thinking time and keep your cool I guess...because if she can't be reasoned with AT ALL then I'm not really sure what you could do...just keep your cool and think it through I guess, TRY and be persuasive (but don't be too hasty and try to keep your cool), if it seems like there's no hope it doesn't mean it's over FOREVER - I mean you still might be able to do something to help the matter eventually even if not right now..

Now, if she can be reasoned with if only a LITTLE BIT - then start there I think. And move up; because any progress is still progress and perhaps you can at least come to some form of compromise and respect of BOTH your views at least...

I do think it's a very important issue though and shouldn't just be gave up on if you can help it...that's just my opinion though and it's totally up to you what decision you make really of course.

Wel, fact is that she seem to have accepted my way, but she is clearly not understanding at the moment, but that may come latter.
Anyways, meeting like-minded people give me strenght in affirming myself, wich is perhaps a big part what was lacking and creating the problem after all...

I don't think I've even remotely experienced the level of prejudice that you've received towards your atheism. That must be awful.

I do my best to give advice and do my bit, as others do. I hope I've said something worthwhile to help but I know that your situation is a very tough one....

Well, it is not as bad as it seem, nobody goes laughing at me in my face or something, but hell do i feel that they believe i'm getting a little bit crazy about all that...