Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?

[Catholic_Lady]

Sorry if that sounded harsh, btw. I didn't mean it to. I know it can be hard when you like someone and just wish tjey would give you more closure.

But please trust me on this, she really isn't interested. And it isn't appropriate to continue to nag her any further. You asked about it twice already, and that is fine. A third time would be crossing the line of respect for her though.

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I don't fully understand it, but why should she give you a reason for not wanting to go out with you? Isn't a "no" enough? The women I have asked out and said "no" I've left at that, I don't need an explanation as to why.

I dont think he wants an explanation as to why she's not interested. I think he just wants her to straight up say "No, I'm not interested" rather than say she will "think about it."

But many women don't feel comfortable being that straight forward, and the cues are more than enough to send the message out that she's not. No need to ask for more clarity.