(November 9, 2018 at 12:11 am)vulcanlogician Wrote:(November 8, 2018 at 11:59 pm)MysticKnight Wrote: Maybe, or maybe it as I said a sign of chaotic winds and suggestions taking hold of a person given they don't feel they had a choice in the matter.
Gee. Sounds an awful lot like me when I'm head over heels for a woman.
I assume it's the same thing with a gay man except the object of his affections is another man. It's not fair to characterize human sexuality as you have done, MK. You hold things against gay people and don't hold those very same things against straight people.
You know what I was hesitant to sharing this with anyone. But here it comes on the internet. In grade 2 I was just having fun and I pinched another boy my age, his ass. He looked at me weird and my sister and brother saw it and reported to my parents.
I don't know if that didn't happen, I might ended up bisexual, I might ended up homosexual, but my parents gave me a severe condemnation of the act and let me know it's not a natural state. At that time, aside from their tone, I felt life had many dangers, and I had to pay heed to guidance and not just do as I please.
I don't have an ounce of attraction to guys now, I know that. But I don't know if my parents didn't have the tone, if my brother and sister didn't have that tone, would I have gotten the sense of how condemned it was.
This was before I even knew what any Surah said regarding this as I was not reciting Quran at that point.
But you know what, I could have easily been a rebellious kid, and thought myself, my parents are bigots or something. But all praise to God I didn't.
And all praise to God they put a fear regarding in me, than safeguarded me my whole life regarding it and made it disgusting in my eyes.
Had they not, I don't know what I would be right now.
