(November 18, 2018 at 12:46 pm)MysticKnight Wrote:(November 18, 2018 at 12:42 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote: Dude...me in a house with three males...it’s a really fine line between love and hate sometimes, and those feelings are most certainly NOT an illusion. 😂❤️
I am not married mainly because of schizophrenia and bipolar and how I didn't handle my illness well enough. But I'm a 3rd year computer science student, only 4 comp sci courses left, almost out of school, and hopefully when I get my career going, I will get married.
I'm trying to improve my life, and I hope one day I will have a loving wife on my side, I'm really tired of being alone.
MK, I am being very serious no joking here. Mental illness is quite normal in humans. It is nothing to be ashamed of. I would say though, even with other religions, trying to solve those issues with old mythology far too often makes the problem worse.
I would say looking up the science behind your maladies and neurologically why those things occur will be a better solution.
I suffer from anxiety and depression myself. It doesn't make you bad or evil. It just means humans are imperfect.
And as far as being alone? I am 52, been through the dating and marriage, and divorce. It is far better to be alone than to be in a bad relationship.
Nothing wrong with wanting a relationship. But having a healthy relationship is far more important than simply having one. Even in family/work/friendships.
Healthy relationships involve good communication skills, and are not about dominance over the other, but problem solving together. And relationships also include being able to part company without animosity if it isn't working out.
I really do wish you luck. And if you want a relationship that is fine too. But as I said before, don't chase utopias.