(December 23, 2018 at 9:29 pm)Bahana Wrote: What do you say? Do you go and observe or just say no?
Depends on how it's done and the intent behind it, I guess.
You say they know how you feel about it, but they can just hope you change your mind, or they can just want everyone together, or, or, or, or...
Or they may think that exposure will lead you to their way of seeing things.
Is it a war worth having?
You know how you think, how you are... What will you lose if you go? A couple of hours of watching tv?
What might you gain? Family appreciation?
What is now important to you?
