(January 30, 2019 at 12:15 pm)Brian37 Wrote:(January 30, 2019 at 12:08 pm)Drich Wrote: that is the dumbest thing ever said by a human being with a intact brain.
suppression of the urge to smoke is how one leaves or quits smoking. suppression of one's desire to drink is how one quits drinking. suppression of sexual thoughts or activities is how one remains faithful to their spouce when away or out of town. like wise suppression of homosexual feelings is how one leaves a life style that has become toxic to them. If and when a person wants to stop having those feelings and many people do despite the propaganda against people who leave that community they seek help generally with the church as it is an unpopular thing to help people leave.
You are seriously trying my patience here.
BEING LGBT is not an an addiction anymore than being heterosexual is.
This is just nonsense on your part based on an old book of mythology.
Not my baggage someone sold you old and bad claims. THE AMA has long since said that homosexuality is NORMAL.
Now if your argument is multiple partners are risky as far as STDs, the same is true for heterosexuals, if they have multiple partners. And heterosexuals outnumber gays.
So all you are arguing is an old book you bought into says crap based on antiquity AND DOES NOT match what modern science says.
you are really challenging common sense here. It doesn't fucking matter how you qualify or classify the lgbt community, there are legit people who want out but because of emotion and propaganda (the bull shit that makes you think no one could ever want out) for instance, a man who had a family that he loved, also happen to have a porn addiction had it progress into gay porn and over time that progressed into meeting up with strangers. at this point this is no different than a man who likes straight porn and meets up with girls on tinder.
At some point the man has to make a choice. it is unfathomable to you that a man could love his family more than gay porn? that a man could love his wife than the off chance of meeting a stranger to
with?Maybe you've been conditioned to always choose the man, but let's say some were born before the year 2000 and Got some integrity from our greatest generation and chooses to love their wives and family over any form of porn or wank session in a public park bathroom. where does one like that go for help?
Where does a man who loves being drilled in the can but wants to also be married and have a family go when he finds out that men like james dobson point out there are no prohibitions in the bed room of a sanctified marriage, meaning his wife could full fill his can drilling need and he can have kids and grand kids to boot?
Where does anyone go who simply wants out? maybe someone tired of the hypocrisy of trying to love a man who hypocritically takes on the social ques of a woman and asks.. why not just love a woman?
Your failure is you inability to allow individuality in the lgbt community. you demand a group think where everyone feels the same that no one could be 100% 'in' then want 100% out.
what about someone who simply says... I am bigger than my sexual desire, and I will not let what I like sexually define me. and intellectually I choose to have a traditional life despite what I may want on a carnal level. no one like that in the LGBT community? thank god there are people like that in ever other facet of humanity otherwise narry a fart would ever be heard again seeing how ever man woman child animal walk swims or crawls would have a bung hole tight enough to press one out. should there be any of us left if the potential serial killers didn't infact suppress their urges and seek help to live a traditional life.
