[Serious] Please convince me gender is binary

[Amarok]

There has been a lot of discussion on it lately, and there's a lot of informed and actual people that struggle with gender. Perhaps I need an education in gender identity, But I only see gender as binary. I'm open to be convinced otherwise. Let me start with a statement, which I'm sure people will jump all over.

I define gender normalcy as that which functions according to its design. Our design is in our DNA as male or female.  Gender identity uses the same words and is thus binary. Is this a true statement? Elucidate me.

PS- I don't think I did the serious tag right, I need an education on that too please

Nope gender and sex are tow different things they are two different words

---

No I'm not trans, I've worn dresses and had bows in my hair at times in my life though.

Persistency of behavior

---

I'm curious.  Your little daughter goes into a female restroom.  A few moments later, a 300-lb obvious trans woman goes into that same bathroom.  Are you just standing there wondering what's new on Netflix or whatever?

I would be no more or less concerned then if any stranger went into that rest room with my children . 

See, I've met some perfectly normal trans people. 

Trans people are normal 

But I've also met some full-blown, Silence of the Lambs crazy bitches-- like scary shit. 

Same can be said for non trans people 

Now, I don't know if Jehanne or other trans people here are part of a community of trans people-- but I'm curious. .

Don't know 

have they not met those psycho bitches, or is that just a misapprehension I have due to a very small sample size? 

The latter 

(I'd say I've met less than a dozen trans people, and really interacted with maybe half of that)

I have met dozens