I Don't Care

[bennyboy]

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I'm sorry for the length of this post. But I think the fact that such a long post can be made with stuff like this is pretty much my point. I mean. . . am I wrong to view this as a systematic and ongoing attack, or as a very deliberate attempt to demean and belittle me? I consider this stuff unnecessarily hurtful and hateful, and I really didn't see that I'm so hated in this community that people would stand by and let it be said if they didn't agree.

Is this, in fact, how I'm seen here?

LMFAO....The little games of psychological manipulation and emotional blackmail that work with your wife, aren't gonna work out her in the wild, benny.
You ain't paying anyone's bills, and no one's in love with your ass.

Do you have any evidence that I've psychologically manipulated or used emotional blackmail on my wife?

You've revealed yourself to be quite the liar and master manipulator here, benny, despite your claims of being unable to control your anger. I can only imagine the level of bullshit your family to put up with IRL. What a depressing, bleak, and stressful existence it must be for them.

I feel sorry for your kids.

I can only assume that you know that constantly referring to my family in this way is likely to be upsetting. Why would you talk like this?

I'm not your wife or one of your other hostage family members, benny.

Do you have evidence that my wife or other family members are held "hostage," or in fact that I've mistreated them at all, except for throwing a television a decade ago?

Yawn...Oh, look. More denial, gaslighting, and projection.

I have no doubt that this sort of bullshit is quite effective in keeping your family off balance and subdued, but do understand that it's boring to me.
It's just further confirmation of what a horridly manipulative person you are.

You continue spinning this narrative-- why don't you at any point support your constant attacks with some actual evidence?

Uh-uh...I smell a doozy of a tantrum coming on. I'll leave you to your deflections about my use of punctuation and the delusion that your violent, monsterous ass is wanted and desired by anyone other than the woman who has the misfortune of depending on you in order to feed and shelter her kids. 

So now you are not only attacking me personally.  You've actually belittled my wife in an attempt to pile on with your entirely made up narrative of me as a violent, "monsterous" person.  

As for my wife-- she's a strong woman, a key figure in our business, and the legal owner of our home.  [. . .]

Hope the wife and kiddies don't invoke your wrath you by talking to you too much as you walk among the cherry trees.

When I describe a nice day in the park with my family, you have to shit on even that pleasant image by projecting. . . what, exactly?

I did indeed express sympathy for them because your a self-professed violent powder keg, who refuses to seek professional intervention.
You made several posts and an entire thread that based on the premise that you should be able to terrorize/attack your family and others without being made to "feel bad" about it, OR ELSE you will terrorize/attack others much worse (land later stating that denying you this unique privilege could eventually drive you to hurt/kill yourself.)

That's your yarn, not anything I said.

 That your rage, aka "the rage of man" was natural,

That's right.  That was the thesis of that thread. Rage is clearly common enough among males of our species that it must be considered an evolved trait. That doesn't mean it's desirable-- but demonizing people for instincts which are maladapted to modern society doesn't do anything except make you feel superior, and give you an easy target for toxic attack. I'd be very surprised if I said as many deliberately hurtful things in my entire life as you have (and quite smugly so) just in these threads.

yet any anger demonstrated by those you victimize or who criticize you is egregiously immoral, and basically akin to a hate crime.

Who, exactly, have I victimized? Who are these poor souls who you claim I've emotionally or psychologically manipulated or bullied? What did I call egregiously immoral, or "basically akin to a hate crime"?

Emotional blackmail at it's finest.

Yes, I do think your're a manipulative monster and quite full of shit.

What are your actual points of evidence for any this?  So far as I can tell:
1)  I described a moment of rage a decade ago, which I specifically said right from the start I wasn't okay with.
2)  I've talked about issues with suicidal thoughts-- and have been talking about them for a few months, in various threads. . . long before I ever made the thread in question.
3)  I've advocated for restraint in using dehumanizing language, on the basis that undermining people's humanity might do unexpected harm, and that it wasn't worth it.