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[Serious] How Do I Help My Friend?
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RE: How Do I Help My Friend?
(August 7, 2019 at 12:37 pm)Drich Wrote:
(August 6, 2019 at 5:54 pm)ReptilianPeon Wrote: I did see Robvalue in person today but this isn't about him, perhaps surprisingly. I'll tell you more about that in another topic, perhaps. This is about somebody else.

A recent friend I made said her parents don't like her being around people who aren't Jehovah Witness (she is not one). I find this rather concerning. Sadly, I don't believe there is anything I can do. Being a disabled person it will be harder for her to obtain economic independence. Are there perhaps any charities that can help? We live in the UK.

I should add that she has been self-harming due to her situation. She does have a partner, which her parents don't approve of either. As I said, quite concerning.

So what are your long term intentions?

It is just to get her free from the evil church or are you looking to possibly sponsor a long term care similar to what the church is in a position to do for her?

I know from being apart of a benevolence program people like this are the one's we as a congregation are looking to help but at the same time would rather spend the money on a full on church member rather than someone who does not believe and is only in attendance to take advantage of the church's generosity.

If you want to help look to see who has this person's long term interest best at heart.

Helping her express her hate for God is not going to help her situation with the people who can provide at least some measure of assistance to her family and her situation.
Reading comprehension Drich...see if you can locate some and put it to use.

Nothing is said about a hatred of god.  What is said is the person's parents don't want them to associate with people who are not JWs, therefore are worldly, in the jargon.

It also sounds clear that she is dependent upon her parents due to her health.

The JWs are known for being able to completely turn their backs on people, even family, when the person doesn't follow all their rules and regulations.
Send lawyers, guns, and money...
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How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 6, 2019 at 5:54 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Fake Messiah - August 7, 2019 at 7:44 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Grandizer - August 7, 2019 at 10:49 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by LastPoet - August 7, 2019 at 12:28 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Grandizer - August 7, 2019 at 4:57 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Fake Messiah - August 8, 2019 at 1:35 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Abaddon_ire - August 7, 2019 at 7:45 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 7, 2019 at 10:11 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 7, 2019 at 5:32 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Drich - August 7, 2019 at 12:37 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by awty - August 7, 2019 at 1:20 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Drich - August 8, 2019 at 1:41 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by LastPoet - August 7, 2019 at 1:49 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 7, 2019 at 4:09 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Drich - August 8, 2019 at 2:06 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by awty - August 8, 2019 at 2:25 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Drich - August 9, 2019 at 9:52 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 7, 2019 at 12:42 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Drich - August 8, 2019 at 1:53 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 7, 2019 at 6:30 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 7, 2019 at 6:35 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 7, 2019 at 6:37 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 7, 2019 at 6:42 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Grandizer - August 7, 2019 at 6:58 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 8, 2019 at 1:46 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 8, 2019 at 1:57 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 8, 2019 at 2:19 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 8, 2019 at 2:59 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Abaddon_ire - August 8, 2019 at 4:06 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 8, 2019 at 4:08 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Abaddon_ire - August 8, 2019 at 5:35 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 9, 2019 at 12:06 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Drich - August 12, 2019 at 9:55 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 14, 2019 at 5:30 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Drich - August 19, 2019 at 9:05 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by awty - August 19, 2019 at 1:30 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by ReptilianPeon - August 19, 2019 at 5:48 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 9, 2019 at 12:10 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 12, 2019 at 10:28 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by tackattack - August 12, 2019 at 11:14 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by Grandizer - August 12, 2019 at 11:52 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 12, 2019 at 11:35 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by tackattack - August 12, 2019 at 11:43 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by awty - August 12, 2019 at 1:44 pm
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 12, 2019 at 11:46 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by tackattack - August 13, 2019 at 11:12 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by The Grand Nudger - August 13, 2019 at 11:29 am
RE: How Do I Help My Friend? - by EgoDeath - August 22, 2019 at 8:35 pm

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