I have been seeing some things online lately about not making kids hug relatives, etc. at family gatherings. This is especially a thing during the holidays. Kids should have the right to do so organically and not it be something expected of them. It's a setup for later when people touch without prompting. We have to do a better job of letting kids know that they have the right to decline hugs and kisses from family that may be people they only see once or twice a year. It sets a really bad precedence and takes all power away when it comes to control over their own bodies.
The line regarding unwelcome touching is often blurry from the start. It's confusing and difficult to navigate.
The line regarding unwelcome touching is often blurry from the start. It's confusing and difficult to navigate.
