(October 19, 2011 at 1:52 pm)IATIA Wrote: I like to think that we are intelligent enough to insult them without resorting to vugarities or lowering ourselves to their level. Sometimes, though ...
Wouldn't that be lovely. Unfortunately, some of us, myself included, think of "vulgarities" as simple words. For example, I read "fuck you" as "I really do not like what you are saying or you, for that matter." Is there a difference? Not in my mind. Now, let's say someone says "Fuck you, you *racial slur*" the racial slur is not a word like shit that is really just a synonym for a less offensive word. The racial slur is, in an of itself and all synonyms, offensive to a slew of people. I would prefer language like that is not used and it is against the rules. Swearing is not, nor is it inherently hostile.