Hey guys! Long time.
A couple of weeks ago I was hit with some news that I had never anticipated at all.
A little backstory: I’ve always said my whole life that I would never have kids. Don’t want them, don’t want to be in the same room, don’t want to watch em. Sorry.
When I was 21, I decided to get a vasectomy. My girlfriend and I fought over this and broke up shortly after.
Fast forward to 2018: I met the girl of my dreams. We married, and have a wonderful life together. There was one stipulation / sacrifice that I knew would be VERY difficult for me, but I decided she was worth it.
We agreed on one kid in a few years. One and done, no más.
Well, before I even had a chance to hit our one year anniversary, we found out that she is pregnant.
I really couldn’t believe it at all... guys, she was late by 20 days. I haven’t had a reversal, so I was very skeptical.
The gyno confirmed it. 8 weeks.
My whole world stopped. The mix of emotions (up and down) are real... sad, accepting, sad again.
I’ve been having a very difficult time accepting this when I know I was supposed to have the choice in the end.
This will easily be the biggest challenge I’ve ever had. --One that I didn’t prepare for at all--
I called the urologist and he said that it likely grew back. 20,000:1 chance my ass....
--
So anyway, she has agreed to the one and done. From now on we will use two forms of BC at all times... Can't even trust a damn vasectomy lol
PS: Before anyone says anything about infidelity, she and I have been together in quarantine the whole time lol. I will be getting tested though and re-snipped
A couple of weeks ago I was hit with some news that I had never anticipated at all.
A little backstory: I’ve always said my whole life that I would never have kids. Don’t want them, don’t want to be in the same room, don’t want to watch em. Sorry.
When I was 21, I decided to get a vasectomy. My girlfriend and I fought over this and broke up shortly after.
Fast forward to 2018: I met the girl of my dreams. We married, and have a wonderful life together. There was one stipulation / sacrifice that I knew would be VERY difficult for me, but I decided she was worth it.
We agreed on one kid in a few years. One and done, no más.
Well, before I even had a chance to hit our one year anniversary, we found out that she is pregnant.
I really couldn’t believe it at all... guys, she was late by 20 days. I haven’t had a reversal, so I was very skeptical.
The gyno confirmed it. 8 weeks.
My whole world stopped. The mix of emotions (up and down) are real... sad, accepting, sad again.
I’ve been having a very difficult time accepting this when I know I was supposed to have the choice in the end.
This will easily be the biggest challenge I’ve ever had. --One that I didn’t prepare for at all--
I called the urologist and he said that it likely grew back. 20,000:1 chance my ass....
--
So anyway, she has agreed to the one and done. From now on we will use two forms of BC at all times... Can't even trust a damn vasectomy lol
PS: Before anyone says anything about infidelity, she and I have been together in quarantine the whole time lol. I will be getting tested though and re-snipped
