@wolf39us
Curious...did you get tested after the vasectomy or did you skip that part?
I ask because I know a couple who went the vasectomy route after three kids and along came #4. Hubby had never gone back to be tested to make sure the surgery worked properly. It hadn't...and the kid looks just like the other three so there was never really any doubt.
Just curious about the original follow up.
As for the pregnancy...if it's yours then congratulations. Open yourself up to the process and don't just stand by a decision you made some years ago. If it's not yours you have some decisions to make.
Kid aversion - I suffer from that and I managed to have and raise three. I found my aversion was mostly to babies and toddlers. Oddly I prefer the preteen and teen years, though if I had it to do over again I would skip the having girls part and just have boys.
Keep us posted.
Curious...did you get tested after the vasectomy or did you skip that part?
I ask because I know a couple who went the vasectomy route after three kids and along came #4. Hubby had never gone back to be tested to make sure the surgery worked properly. It hadn't...and the kid looks just like the other three so there was never really any doubt.
Just curious about the original follow up.
As for the pregnancy...if it's yours then congratulations. Open yourself up to the process and don't just stand by a decision you made some years ago. If it's not yours you have some decisions to make.
Kid aversion - I suffer from that and I managed to have and raise three. I found my aversion was mostly to babies and toddlers. Oddly I prefer the preteen and teen years, though if I had it to do over again I would skip the having girls part and just have boys.
Keep us posted.
I'm your huckleberry.
