RE: Relationships: Finding your perfect match and then losing them.
July 17, 2020 at 3:49 am
(This post was last modified: July 17, 2020 at 3:51 am by Porcupine.)
(July 16, 2020 at 7:32 pm)Brian37 Wrote: The truth is the utopia of finding your soulmate and sticking with them your entire life is utopia. It can and does happen sure, but it is not the norm.
So true. But what is so sad, for me, is that I had such a rare utopia but lost it. So then, on that premise, my question is: now what?
(July 16, 2020 at 8:27 pm)brewer Wrote:(July 16, 2020 at 7:47 pm)Rev. Rye Wrote: I don't think promoting Ashley Madison is a good idea. For one thing, it's built on facilitating affairs between married people, which wouldn't bother me as much if not for the fact that this seems to be the exact opposite situation the OP is in. For another, literally everything I've heard about AM suggests there's an absurdly high male-to-female ratio of the user base. Even without the morally eyebrow-raising gimmick, this cannot bode well for your chances.
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I don't see how anything went over his head. It's simply true that AM couldn't apply to my situation any less.
"Zen … does not confuse spirituality with thinking about God while one is peeling potatoes. Zen spirituality is just to peel the potatoes." - Alan Watts
