[Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men

[WinterHold]

If every woman makes every man happy, then there won't be any problems regarding tranquility in mates.

It's the womans job to make her man happy? That is a repulsive ideology.

There many points you need to satisfy as a human to be happy, finding the right mate is one of them. But it's an accumulation of points.

I might be young, but I know very well that I need to choose my mate like I'm choosing a second body of mine; i.e she must be extremely compatible with me, I expect her to do the same and validate me very carefully.

My ex was compatible at the outset. But people change. So she became more religious and I became more atheist over time. We started from a position of not being particularly committed. Religion caused the problem. People like you. You really are clueless.

At this point, I do not mind discussing interpersonal marriage stuff, because as far as I am concerned, the bitch can go die in a fire. Both of my kids are now atheist of their own volition. The eldest (now an adult) will be appointed shortly as executor of my will.

You weren't on the same page if you changed your views in the future, you chose different paths and that separates whole nations and whole populations not just you as a couple.

What matters is that all of you choose your own path, I did so when I disobeyed my Sunni family and that's what I plan to teach my kids -if I ever had kids-.

Better than getting involved, having kids, then cut them and scar them for life between fighting parents who aren't compatible.

Except I know from experience that this is a load. My kids have keys to my home and are rounded individuals. So I know you are young. You are clueless how the real world works.

But I have the memory of incompatibility kicking in to my family, and I know exactly what kind of forest the child might live through when their parents are not compatible, they -the children- can lose years trying to figure out who they are -you can expect that I went through that early in my life too-.

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Can't imagine why you haven't found Ms. Right yet Winter.  Positively baffling.

You never know what is coming for you tomorrow.