Just now on FB

[arewethereyet]

You have no respect for this forum, it would seem. Rant on about your personal life.

What? Where did that come from?

I did include my experience in responding on Facebook. But this has far more to do with what hospital staff and nursing home staff have to deal with.

You tell me why it is wrong to point out that hospital and nursing staff have a horrible decision to make?

I have friends who work in those places, and they have had to make the horrible decision to tell family and friends to stay away.

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It is a harsh reality to tell someone, even in that horrible moment of pain, that not even then, do they have the right to take it out on staff merely trying to save lives. He threatened to fight staff if they didn't let him at her bedside. One can understand the frustration and pain for sure, but making threats isn't the way to deal with the pain.

Brian, your post was totally reasonable.  And it is an issue.  People are hurting and are lashing out but the only people they have to lash out at are the ones who are actually trying to help.  This whole COVID disaster is just awful on so many levels.