A lot of parents don't/didn't like to set boundaries on their children, with the expected results. Military schools helped teach the kids boundaries. I taught at a private school for a couple of years; a lot of the kids were entertainment industry brats. The parents expected the teachers to teach the kids discipline. But if they won't/won't do it at home, it's kind of a pointless expectation.
If you get to thinking you’re a person of some influence, try ordering somebody else’s dog around.