(March 25, 2023 at 10:06 am)arewethereyet Wrote: For some reason, a person's sexual orientation has never been an issue for me. It may be because I had a great aunt who never married and dressed in what would be considered a quite masculine manner back in the day...she even smoked a pipe. I just never took the time to concern myself over what anyone else was doing with their parts....as long a what they did was consensual.
I simply don't understand why people are so worried about it. I will surely mess up pronouns and such...I am still very much a ma'am and sir person and after nearly 66 years that's a little hard to shake. And I have goofed up but found that trying to fix it seems to make it worse and more uncomfortable.
Changing body parts is something I was forced into thanks to breast cancer. I had to learn to deal with it. For someone to choose to make a body change that's similar can't be an easy thing to do or something done on a whim.
Governing and judging others based on their body parts, their wish for a body change, or who they are attracted to is just something I don't want to have to pencil into my day.
I'm sorry for you having cancer.
If it's comforting to you, I have M.S. It's miles away from cancer, but hey.
As for that comment, even without breasts a woman is a woman. There is no changing your gender; it is a gift from God.
Which makes us discover the goal of this topic more and more: even if a man or a woman practiced sex as the opposite gender, it won't change the truth: it's a mere illusion.
