Dating Advice

[Ahriman]

Present your best dating advice here.

I believe in the maxim "an interested person is an interesting person." 

So that means two things: 

1) show passion for something beyond oneself, that one can talk about. Some field of music, local history, restoring old houses -- something that shows you're not completely self-centered and take an interest in life. Plus you can grow friendships that can turn into dating. (Probably this wouldn't include an obsession with hentai porn or some other creepy thing.) 

2) Show genuine interest in the person sitting opposite you. Ask questions and listen to the answers. 

The least datable person is probably the one who says "I'm bored and boring, I need a partner to save me."

Some people don't have anything else to work with. All of my relationships have been made out of the other person pitying me. I don't know how else to attract people.