RE: Dating Advice
October 25, 2023 at 1:10 am
(This post was last modified: October 25, 2023 at 1:10 am by FrustratedFool.)
So, have you tried to be someone who isn't pitiable, who has a range of interests, who is interested in the other person, who doesn't act creepy, who doesn't overtalk, etc?
Ie, have you tried to improve your personality and social skills (like you tried to lose weight)?
I guess if you want to date then you should work at becoming dateable, bith physically and mentally. If you've genuinely repeatedly tried and can't change yourself, then I would try and find other ways to have a satisfying life. Some people are plausibly undateable, yes. You may be one. But you have to have seriously tried first to find out.
Ie, have you tried to improve your personality and social skills (like you tried to lose weight)?
I guess if you want to date then you should work at becoming dateable, bith physically and mentally. If you've genuinely repeatedly tried and can't change yourself, then I would try and find other ways to have a satisfying life. Some people are plausibly undateable, yes. You may be one. But you have to have seriously tried first to find out.
