(October 25, 2023 at 1:19 am)Ahriman Wrote:(October 25, 2023 at 1:10 am)FrustratedFool Wrote: So, have you tried to be someone who isn't pitiable, who has a range of interests, who is interested in the other person, who doesn't act creepy, who doesn't overtalk, etc?
Ie, have you tried to improve your personality and social skills (like you tried to lose weight)?
I guess if you want to date then you should work at becoming dateable, bith physically and mentally. If you've genuinely repeatedly tried and can't change yourself, then I would try and find other ways to have a satisfying life. Some people are plausibly undateable, yes. You may be one. But you have to have seriously tried first to find out.
I am not like other people, pretty much not at all. I have nothing in common with the average person. Girls want guys who are like, "society people". I don't give a fuck about society. I really do not see how trying to date a girl would work out. I don't think it would. What would we even talk about?
Fair enough. I guess you don't want to date because you don't like people. As a previously sex-repulsed caedsexual I totally understand that.
Are you satisfied with how you live?
I found romantic and sexual satisfaction when I was undatebale and didn't want to date by falling in love with tulpas and objects. Does you gay hook-up life satisfy you?