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Help with a Christian girlfriend
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RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend
It's probably because she hasn't thought about her beliefs. She just knows she has faith. She doesn't know why and can't explain it to you, which is probably why she is uncomfortable talking about her beliefs. I suggest talking to her about faith. I do not suggest trying to convince her she doesn't have faith. She must ultimately come to that false conclusion (in my opinion) on her own. Try talking logically about your own beliefs, that might be a good starting point.

It may also be because she doesn't want to sound preachy. Discussions about beliefs have a way of spiraling into big fights. People tend to believe that they are right, talking about belief with someone who disagrees with your belief usually becomes a battle of wills.
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Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Danvelope223 - January 7, 2012 at 12:55 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 7, 2012 at 12:57 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 7, 2012 at 12:57 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Tiberius - January 7, 2012 at 1:45 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Faith No More - January 7, 2012 at 1:45 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Cinjin - January 7, 2012 at 2:29 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Erinome - January 7, 2012 at 2:51 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by 5thHorseman - January 7, 2012 at 3:11 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by amkerman - January 7, 2012 at 3:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 7, 2012 at 4:47 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 7, 2012 at 6:36 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Blam! - January 7, 2012 at 6:44 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by emr - January 7, 2012 at 7:00 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by kılıç_mehmet - January 7, 2012 at 7:20 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by frankiej - January 7, 2012 at 7:44 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 7, 2012 at 9:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by frankiej - January 7, 2012 at 10:50 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 8, 2012 at 7:31 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 7, 2012 at 9:46 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 7, 2012 at 11:09 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 7, 2012 at 11:22 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by frankiej - January 7, 2012 at 11:13 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 7, 2012 at 11:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Erinome - January 8, 2012 at 11:35 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by genkaus - January 9, 2012 at 9:16 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 11, 2012 at 10:24 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Faith No More - January 12, 2012 at 12:01 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 12, 2012 at 7:50 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 8, 2012 at 12:22 am
Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Zen Badger - January 8, 2012 at 2:19 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by KichigaiNeko - January 8, 2012 at 2:44 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 8, 2012 at 2:52 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by twocompulsive - January 8, 2012 at 4:37 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 8, 2012 at 11:25 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 8, 2012 at 11:45 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by twocompulsive - January 8, 2012 at 2:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 8, 2012 at 11:47 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 8, 2012 at 11:55 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 8, 2012 at 11:54 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Cinjin - January 8, 2012 at 3:53 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 8, 2012 at 7:20 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 9, 2012 at 12:11 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 13, 2012 at 2:38 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 9, 2012 at 3:53 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by KichigaiNeko - January 9, 2012 at 5:50 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 12, 2012 at 10:08 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Braveheart - January 12, 2012 at 10:09 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Doubting Thomas - January 13, 2012 at 1:57 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 13, 2012 at 2:13 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Darwinian - January 13, 2012 at 2:16 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Doubting Thomas - January 13, 2012 at 4:00 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 13, 2012 at 7:20 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 14, 2012 at 1:34 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 14, 2012 at 9:26 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Braveheart - January 14, 2012 at 9:34 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 14, 2012 at 9:45 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 14, 2012 at 3:40 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 14, 2012 at 3:42 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 14, 2012 at 3:51 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 14, 2012 at 5:23 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 14, 2012 at 7:33 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 14, 2012 at 8:11 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 14, 2012 at 10:39 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 14, 2012 at 10:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by frankiej - January 14, 2012 at 10:42 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 14, 2012 at 10:43 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 15, 2012 at 2:55 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Cinjin - January 17, 2012 at 11:08 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Undeceived - January 18, 2012 at 2:54 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by genkaus - January 18, 2012 at 4:38 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by 5thHorseman - January 15, 2012 at 3:36 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Cosmic Ape - January 17, 2012 at 10:48 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by 5thHorseman - January 17, 2012 at 11:10 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by KichigaiNeko - January 18, 2012 at 5:59 am

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