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Help with a Christian girlfriend
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RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend
Hello There, heres a little help from another christian.
ive broken your issues down into two topics, biblical reason and common sense reason (since your aren't a christian)

Homosexuality is wrong
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Biblical reason: Repeated over and over again in both testaments. The bible calls homosexuality an "abomination"
Common sense reason: 1. The pervasive act of homosexuality is a stepping stone to much worse sexual acts.
2. Homosexuality prevents pro-creation
3. Homosexuality highly increases chances of catching a disease

Drinking is wrong
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Biblical reason: Not much. All of the major biblical figures consumed alcohol. Drunkenness and addiction is said to be wrong, but not alcohol itself.
Common sense reason: Drinking can easily elevate into an addiction, an addiction that can destroy your relationship and bank account.

Divorce is wrong
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Biblical reason: When you make the covenant of marriage before god, you accept responsibility for your wife. You can't quite on a responsibility. (It should be noted that divorce is excused in the bible under certain conditions)
Common sense reason: Divorces are messy, unpleasant affairs. The psychological affects it can have on children is devastating. Ultimately, it is usually easier to just tough it out through a rough patch.


Premarital sex is wrong
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Biblical reasoning: God says to remain pure of heart, mind, and soul. The bible says that sex is a beautiful act that should be saved for someone you've made a devotion to.
Common sense: I dont need to tell you how many lives have been destroyed by an unwanted pregnancy, or STDs. This can be many times more destructive in youth years. Innocence should be cherished. Would you want your children having sex with other children? Sex always makes relationships more complicated.


And there you have it; a few reasons as to why your girlfriend believes what she does. If you would like more, or would like me to elaborate, please ask.

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Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Danvelope223 - January 7, 2012 at 12:55 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 7, 2012 at 12:57 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 7, 2012 at 12:57 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Tiberius - January 7, 2012 at 1:45 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Faith No More - January 7, 2012 at 1:45 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Cinjin - January 7, 2012 at 2:29 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Erinome - January 7, 2012 at 2:51 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by 5thHorseman - January 7, 2012 at 3:11 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by amkerman - January 7, 2012 at 3:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 7, 2012 at 4:47 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 7, 2012 at 6:36 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Blam! - January 7, 2012 at 6:44 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by emr - January 7, 2012 at 7:00 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by kılıç_mehmet - January 7, 2012 at 7:20 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by frankiej - January 7, 2012 at 7:44 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 7, 2012 at 9:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by frankiej - January 7, 2012 at 10:50 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 8, 2012 at 7:31 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 7, 2012 at 9:46 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 7, 2012 at 11:09 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 7, 2012 at 11:22 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by frankiej - January 7, 2012 at 11:13 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 7, 2012 at 11:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Erinome - January 8, 2012 at 11:35 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by genkaus - January 9, 2012 at 9:16 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 11, 2012 at 10:24 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Faith No More - January 12, 2012 at 12:01 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 12, 2012 at 7:50 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 8, 2012 at 12:22 am
Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Zen Badger - January 8, 2012 at 2:19 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by KichigaiNeko - January 8, 2012 at 2:44 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 8, 2012 at 2:52 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by twocompulsive - January 8, 2012 at 4:37 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 8, 2012 at 11:25 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 8, 2012 at 11:45 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by twocompulsive - January 8, 2012 at 2:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Minimalist - January 8, 2012 at 11:47 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 8, 2012 at 11:55 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 8, 2012 at 11:54 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Cinjin - January 8, 2012 at 3:53 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 8, 2012 at 7:20 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 9, 2012 at 12:11 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 13, 2012 at 2:38 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 9, 2012 at 3:53 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by KichigaiNeko - January 9, 2012 at 5:50 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 12, 2012 at 10:08 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Braveheart - January 12, 2012 at 10:09 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Doubting Thomas - January 13, 2012 at 1:57 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 13, 2012 at 2:13 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Darwinian - January 13, 2012 at 2:16 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Doubting Thomas - January 13, 2012 at 4:00 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 13, 2012 at 7:20 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 14, 2012 at 1:34 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by ElDinero - January 14, 2012 at 9:26 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Braveheart - January 14, 2012 at 9:34 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 14, 2012 at 9:45 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 14, 2012 at 3:40 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 14, 2012 at 3:42 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 14, 2012 at 3:51 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 14, 2012 at 5:23 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 14, 2012 at 7:33 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by The Grand Nudger - January 14, 2012 at 8:11 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 14, 2012 at 10:39 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 14, 2012 at 10:41 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by frankiej - January 14, 2012 at 10:42 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Napoléon - January 14, 2012 at 10:43 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by organiccornflake - January 15, 2012 at 2:55 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Cinjin - January 17, 2012 at 11:08 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Undeceived - January 18, 2012 at 2:54 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by genkaus - January 18, 2012 at 4:38 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by 5thHorseman - January 15, 2012 at 3:36 pm
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by Cosmic Ape - January 17, 2012 at 10:48 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by 5thHorseman - January 17, 2012 at 11:10 am
RE: Help with a Christian girlfriend - by KichigaiNeko - January 18, 2012 at 5:59 am

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