(February 13, 2012 at 9:53 am)Rhythm Wrote: No, there doesn't "have" to be..you very much want there to be a boss. This has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not there is, as has been pointed out to you by a couple of posters, a couple of times. I'd be glad to rephrase this anyway you like if it's difficult to understand. Just single out the part of this sentence that has you confused-
"What you want to exist, and what exists, are not always the same thing"
Give me an example or analogy from the above sentence. English is not daily spoken language. I might intepret it wrongly.