Is there any secular reason why being gay is bad?

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We're also giving thieves, murderers, traitors, provocators and other people the hard time they need.
No one is a unique snowflake here. Those who live in harmony with the normal majority deserve the right to respect, those who don't, deserve only the hard stick on their backs.

The only reason homosexuals aren't able to live in harmony with the majority is because people like you won't let them.
Thieves and Murderers can't live in harmony with the majority because they're assholes who directly harm others with there actions.

And for good reason. I rather have the people out there with a reasonably harmonious identity, than with their deviant sexual identities.
Just as I do not go out and introduce myself to people as a "heterosexual", I do not want people to go out and introduce themselves to others as being homosexual. But I know that people who suffer from minority complex are very passionate about whatever that makes them a minority, and want everyone else to know that they are a "minority". The "coming out" process, essentially leaving behind whatever identity you have, to adopt your sexuality as your prime identity.

Just like thieves and murderers, any sexual deviants are directly harmful to society by the way they act. Is a provocator that agitates people to acts of arson and riot not harmful? Yet he only uses words, nothing else.