Quote:Sex is not a taboo in Christianity until it's taken out side marriage
Keep your baggage to your own religion.
The only taboo there should be for sex is when it is forced on someone without their consent. Rape and child molesting are examples ANYONE sane can agree are bad.
There are also pragmatic reasons without a superstition to keep it in your pants. Like an unwanted baby, or teen baby when you have no money. Or a disease.
Religion does not have a monopoly on morality and I had sex before I was married. Would I do it again? DEPENDS. Some of the sex was stupid and I look back at it now and am glad I didn't get the woman knocked up.
But marriage does not automatically mean you will have good sex, or a child you can afford, or even end up getting along with. Nor does it mean the kid will grow up well adjusted.
What parents should teach their kids, instead of utopia myth bullshit, is to know what they want for their future, even if it means being single. Teach them that their actions can affect them and those around them. Teach them what their bodies do at the individuals mental maturity age. LET THEM DECIDE FOR THEMSELVES after informing them of all the pros and cons and dangers of sex and the COST of having a baby in today's high cost of living.
I look back at my life of being indoctrinated by the idea of marriage and the truth is I never wanted to get married. I just thought thats what I had to do because stupid religious people told me life was script. If I had had a kid I would have been miserable and that kid would have been affected. Being married is a CHOICE it should NOT be a law.
