RE: Gonna commit suicide. Your theories of where I go.
June 30, 2012 at 2:58 pm
(This post was last modified: June 30, 2012 at 3:04 pm by fr0d0.)
Thanks for your responses. WC: yes I wouldn't include what you described. Even better (well, i think i understand it better) is the similar kind of thing I've seen old red indians do.
You've posted some really good stuff on the subject FNM. I wasn't sure regarding the apparent insensitivity of what i put but i thought I put it out there anyway. I'm posting from my phone which is kinda limiting. I have been in that place myself, and councelled people in this position, and in my experience i would say that it is almost always selfishness at work. Why broadcast it? Why not minimise the hurt to others if it's only you and no one can help you?
When I was there, home truths were what I needed and I appreciated the one person who told me straight rather than the many who placated me with sympathy which was of no help.
Your elaboration is great FNM. I just don't feel my input is irrelevant. We already have too much soft & useless advice. My intention is far from derision.
Yes Shell I've been there and I stick by my conclusion. I sure didn't want to be in that place. Why would you choose years of misery to the extent that you couldn't bear it. I believe the selfish route is to entertain the negativity.
Yes Nap I've witheld much kudos for the same reason. Petty I know!
I meant how I believe in positivity and my religious rationalisations follow that trend. I wasn't religious during my depression, and it had nothing to do with my recovery. The OP was asking about our ideas on life after death which is the only reason I mentioned it.
You've posted some really good stuff on the subject FNM. I wasn't sure regarding the apparent insensitivity of what i put but i thought I put it out there anyway. I'm posting from my phone which is kinda limiting. I have been in that place myself, and councelled people in this position, and in my experience i would say that it is almost always selfishness at work. Why broadcast it? Why not minimise the hurt to others if it's only you and no one can help you?
When I was there, home truths were what I needed and I appreciated the one person who told me straight rather than the many who placated me with sympathy which was of no help.
Your elaboration is great FNM. I just don't feel my input is irrelevant. We already have too much soft & useless advice. My intention is far from derision.
Yes Shell I've been there and I stick by my conclusion. I sure didn't want to be in that place. Why would you choose years of misery to the extent that you couldn't bear it. I believe the selfish route is to entertain the negativity.
Yes Nap I've witheld much kudos for the same reason. Petty I know!
I meant how I believe in positivity and my religious rationalisations follow that trend. I wasn't religious during my depression, and it had nothing to do with my recovery. The OP was asking about our ideas on life after death which is the only reason I mentioned it.
