(December 2, 2012 at 4:03 pm)Kirbmarc Wrote: I think that many people fail to realize that what they want might not be what other people want. You can't decide what's best for someone else.
I also think that is quite true (most of the time, at least).
Many times people told me to be more like this or more like that and so on, and I know that they are probably saying that for my own good - but, in the end - I feel that none of that really makes a difference in me. Sometimes I do think about what other people tell me about myself, but then I don't usually put an effort to change myself unless I really think I should change. I guess that means I'm a little stubborn in that regards. But hey, people can be whatever they want to be.
I am not an outgoing person either. I'm the opposite of that. I usually like to be alone more than being in social settings like in parties and all that stuff (although it depends on the occasion sometimes). I also have few friends. And in my own experience so far, unlike many others, loneliness hasn't bothered me nor has it caused me any kind of anxiety. I still do not get bored because there's always something interesting for me to do, think, and/or learn about.
