RE: Non traditional engagement
December 26, 2012 at 5:25 pm
(This post was last modified: December 26, 2012 at 5:25 pm by thesummerqueen.)
The only reason I'd be scared of asking is because the last time I tried to make a commitment to someone where I felt ballsy (I wasn't even asking him to marry me) I was cut down like a calf for slaughter. So now I always wait for them to bring it up.
David is just the kind of guy who'd want to plan something like that as a surprise though, so I wouldn't want to take that away from him. He likes being alpha, and I like him being that way, so it works.
If someone is with their partner and there isn't that sort of relationship, though, and you're comfortable being in the lead in some way - go for it!
David is just the kind of guy who'd want to plan something like that as a surprise though, so I wouldn't want to take that away from him. He likes being alpha, and I like him being that way, so it works.
If someone is with their partner and there isn't that sort of relationship, though, and you're comfortable being in the lead in some way - go for it!
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