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Joining just for advice, really
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Joining just for advice, really
Hey everyone,

My name is Mike, I'm 24 and I live in the UK. I've been an atheist for roughly 10 years now. I was brought up in a catholic household, all of my relatives are either catholic or protestant and I was baptised and had my first communion, but I was never confirmed.

From an early age I always questioned religion to a certain degree and when I finally decided and announced myself as an atheist, all my family were completely fine with it (it even rubbed off on them a little).

Recently, I have started to look into excommunicating myself from the church. I have no desire to have my name associated with them in any way. However, I was wondering if there would be any cons with doing such a thing, e.g, I might find it hard for any children I have in the future finding a good school.

I can't really find many cons, so I just want to make sure I'm not missing out on any real benefits. Also, after saying this to my parents, I was surprised when they told me that they would be disappointed if I went ahead with this. That surprised me a lot. If I was to tell them I wanted to be a muslim, hindu, any other religion they'd be accepting. They are accepting of me as an atheist. If I was homosexual or bisexual, they'd be accepting. But this decision seems to have hit a nerve.

Would be grateful to hear any advice or even stories from members of this forum.

Thanks,
Mike.
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Joining just for advice, really - by Gravesy - January 4, 2013 at 12:49 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by NoMoreFaith - January 4, 2013 at 12:57 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by LastPoet - January 4, 2013 at 1:02 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by Gravesy - January 4, 2013 at 1:15 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by Mister Agenda - January 4, 2013 at 1:28 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by Minimalist - January 4, 2013 at 1:37 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by Gravesy - January 4, 2013 at 1:45 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by Minimalist - January 4, 2013 at 2:07 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by Angrboda - January 4, 2013 at 2:53 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by Annik - January 4, 2013 at 3:11 pm
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by KichigaiNeko - January 5, 2013 at 1:22 am
RE: Joining just for advice, really - by Aractus - January 5, 2013 at 7:21 am

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