sex before marriage

[Something completely different]

I was created out of wedlock and my parents were only engaged in a civil non religious marrige when I was born.

And the Old testament clearly outlines that every child which is born out of wedlock is destined for hell.

So all abrahamic religions can kiss my ass!!!

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Response: What's wrong is that lust is the idea of having sex to please yourself, not to please your partner, thus using a person sexually. The use of someone sexually leads to the most devistating and emotionally damaging feelings becuase they are being used for sex.

When I have sex I intend to please my partner, I actualy dont even think that having sex which doesn`t please ones partner is any good.

Using a partner???

I never had non consensual sex.

I guess you are a confused little boy aren`t you?

ISn`T it Saudi Arabia where one can marry a 12 year old girl? I bet that sex is consensual because it`s in acordance with Islam.
So was probably the sex Mohamed had with his 12 year old cousin.

Response: There is nothing wrong in having one's sex life controlled when the control is simply to prevent the act of being used sexually. Furthermore, arranged marriages is not an islamic concept, but a cultural concept.

One should have Sex! But it Schouldn`t be sexual!

WTF!!!

And do you also propose a bedtime police to check if people have apropriate sexlifes?

Response: It is not just a muslim thing not to take the rule against sex before marriage seriously, for all men of all backgrounds do it. And like those who do it, they don't take it seriously because they want the pleasure of sex, without the responsibility of taking care of their spouse as written in a marriage contract.

Because sex today doesn`t necerely mean to have a child.

There for pleasure sex is something one can have without marrige.

Regarding 4 wives, the purpose of multiple wives in islam is based on the idea to protect women since men are to be the providers and protectors of women. The rule of 4 wives came at a time when there was no limit to having wives so if it was based on lust, then a limitation would have never been placed.

Your faith clearly regards woman as very equal

Islam understands that there are more women than men in the world,

Which is wrong


And the most pittyfull excuse I have ever read.

so the idea of one man marrying another woman would never work to begin with, because there would be thousands of women who can't get husbands. Now if someone decides to take advantage of having one more than one wife simply to have more sex, than I too agree that this is wrong, but that was never the concept of having 4 wives in islam. It was to ensure that all women are able to have a man to love and protect them, especially at a time when men many men would mistreat women as if they were property.

This is all irrelevant since there aren`T more women than men.

"To ensure that all women are loved"

What about a womans individual right to self determination? So she can chose whom to love by herself?

Let's not forget that the command to marry up to 4 wives comes after the command to do so if one can not take care of the orphans and also says that if a person can not be just with more than one wife, then marry only one. This further shows than the concept to marry more than one wife is too love and protect the women who are poor and unprotected like orphans, not for sexual reasons. Notice the rule of also marrying only one, a law that is only stipulated in the scriptures of islam, and not in any other religious scripture.

What a sick form of charity!!!

One might aswell offer food to a homeless guy, for the exchange of a blowjob.

If this is what the quoran sais, then it might aswell be a pimps guidline book or a methdealers guidlines to sex and success.