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sex before marriage
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RE: sex before marriage
you claim that the qurans intentions are to make sure women are taken care of which i cant argue with, arguing about the intentions of a 1500 year old book which is written in a language i cant speak is beyond me.
And in islamic society where polygamy is acceptable youre right that the man needs to prove he has enough money in these circumstances to look after the women.
But the more we speak about men having enough money to afford 4 wives the more shallow it seems to me.
And we are talking about traditions from a book which definitely doesnt view women as equal, im almost certain even muslims with the wildest imaginations couldnt argue against that. A womans testimony is worth less in court, it says god created women less than men and that men can admonish and beat women if they fear rebelion from them.
But this thread really isnt here to argue about all that anyway, i was more hoping to get to know what individual muslim experiences are regarding this, like i said most of the muslims i know or know of either dont have the will power to not have sex or they just dont take the rule seriously, but whats your experience? for example, did you lose your virginity to your wife? dont you ever feel temptation?
i was looking for a bit more than ridged scholarly answers


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sex before marriage - by paulpablo - January 3, 2013 at 11:03 am
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 3, 2013 at 12:24 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by paulpablo - January 3, 2013 at 12:34 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 3, 2013 at 12:36 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by paulpablo - January 3, 2013 at 12:48 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 3, 2013 at 12:58 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by paulpablo - January 3, 2013 at 1:03 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 3, 2013 at 1:21 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Annik - January 5, 2013 at 12:06 am
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 5, 2013 at 3:11 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 3, 2013 at 1:36 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 4, 2013 at 8:29 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Dee Dee Ramone - January 4, 2013 at 9:25 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 5, 2013 at 5:08 am
RE: sex before marriage - by CapnAwesome - January 4, 2013 at 11:53 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by paulpablo - January 5, 2013 at 2:30 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 5, 2013 at 6:23 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 5, 2013 at 3:46 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 7, 2013 at 3:58 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by paulpablo - January 5, 2013 at 8:53 am
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 5, 2013 at 3:39 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by paulpablo - January 5, 2013 at 9:00 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 5, 2013 at 9:14 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Brian37 - January 5, 2013 at 3:28 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 5, 2013 at 9:39 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 10:27 am
RE: sex before marriage - by KichigaiNeko - January 6, 2013 at 12:29 am
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 12:42 am
RE: sex before marriage - by KichigaiNeko - January 6, 2013 at 12:47 am
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 1:04 am
RE: sex before marriage - by KichigaiNeko - January 6, 2013 at 1:08 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 6, 2013 at 1:11 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Brian37 - January 6, 2013 at 7:25 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 6, 2013 at 11:05 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 11:09 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 6, 2013 at 11:10 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 11:15 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 6, 2013 at 11:22 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 11:30 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 6, 2013 at 11:35 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 11:40 am
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 11:40 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 11:54 am
RE: sex before marriage - by paulpablo - January 6, 2013 at 11:57 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 12:00 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by paulpablo - January 6, 2013 at 12:18 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 12:25 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 12:19 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 6, 2013 at 12:26 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 12:29 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 12:33 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 12:35 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 12:40 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 6, 2013 at 12:38 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 12:43 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 12:53 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 6, 2013 at 12:52 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 12:56 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 1:07 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 6, 2013 at 1:13 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 6, 2013 at 1:22 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 6, 2013 at 1:28 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 2:47 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 11:34 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 6, 2013 at 11:48 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 6, 2013 at 11:52 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 7, 2013 at 12:05 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 7, 2013 at 12:25 am
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 7, 2013 at 12:55 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Brian37 - January 7, 2013 at 8:27 am
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 7, 2013 at 4:06 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Darkstar - January 8, 2013 at 11:49 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 8, 2013 at 6:09 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 7:14 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 8, 2013 at 7:16 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Darwinian - January 8, 2013 at 7:23 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 8:18 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Darkstar - January 8, 2013 at 8:36 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Brian37 - January 8, 2013 at 8:47 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Minimalist - January 8, 2013 at 7:22 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Al-Fatihah - January 9, 2013 at 7:31 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Cinjin - January 8, 2013 at 8:13 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by Mister Agenda - January 8, 2013 at 8:20 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Grand Nudger - January 9, 2013 at 1:27 am
RE: sex before marriage - by Brian37 - January 9, 2013 at 8:17 am
RE: sex before marriage - by ThatMuslimGuy - January 9, 2013 at 5:52 pm
RE: sex before marriage - by The Magic Pudding - January 9, 2013 at 9:48 am

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