sex before marriage

[ThatMuslimGuy]

Muslim guy i dont know if you have problems with your ability to read, im genuinely asking this sincerely, but i actually said i DONT want to argue the point about wether or not it says a husband can beat his wife in this thread because ive read many many many translations of the quran and seen that it blatently does say a huband can. And i DONT want scholars opinions on sex before marriage.
I said i wanted muslims own personal experiences on if they get tempted by sex before marriage, if not why not. And if they did lose their virginity to their wife and so on.
Your story so far as im aware is that youre going to not eat food to exhaust yourself everytime you feel a sexual urge and youre going to marry as soon as possible, which is fair enough if thats how you want to live your life.

Sorry i didnt mean for an argument. I apologize. i just felt i should clarify somethings you said.
Personally yeah you get tempted. But it's about dealing with that temptation. Masturbation is a huge temptation but it's about trying to stop it. So banning porn, stopping avenues that could lead to the temptation, remembering it doesnt benefit me only harms, remembering that it degradates women and watching porn will only make the porn industry more money. Then having the goal of going to heaven and not hell. But tbh most of time this goes out the window and you sin.

Islamically if you get tempted or any sexual thought enters the mind a man is told to lower his gaze and guard his private parts, surah 24:30 Sahih International
Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what they do.

Meaning that say i see a sexually attractive women and get the temptation that i should lower my gaze and guard my chastity. And we are told that if we look up again that second look is from shaytaan e.g. bad a sin.
Same applies for women, Surah 24:31:
Sahih International
And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts

So this sort of helps day to day and in an islamic society the temptation would never arise. however in a non-islamic country this is hard to follow. Due to obvious temptation. But i duno rambling here but its just will power, remembering the bad effects of the sin, remember allah's reward in the hereafter and his punishment.

Personally i'm not gonna fast. And i'm going to marry who i love not a quick marriage.