No more Mr Nice Stimbo?

[John V]

It is?

Ah but then I'm not the one confusing empathy, sentiment, or just plain being in touch with one's emotions with effeminacy.

Neither am I. I'm saying that acting like a giddy schoolgirl is effeminate, and it is.

If I was feeling mean I might say one of us is probably a terminal virgin. Thank you for not making me feel mean.

Typical effeminate passive/aggressive behavior. Be a man. Forget the passive shit, just be aggressive for crying out loud.

For the rest, I do take your point in the manner it was most likely intended. All opinions are welcome and can even be revealing.

Seriously, try some of the stuff on that list. All these people telling you to be yourself (there were a couple notable exceptions) are full of shit. There's not a person on this planet who couldn't improve in some ways. Quit crying like a baby and do something about it. Heck, I'm not even suggesting that you lose the effeminate stuff. That's apparently who you are. I'm just suggesting you add some masculinity in your life, and be selective about when you reveal different aspects of yourself to chicks.