Studies show that children specifically high school teenagers, are amongst the most numerously bigoted, bullying hypocrits that humanity can produce. In high school it's be a bully, agree with the bully, or be bullied, and even when most have grown out of that juvenile state of mind, are you honestly of the opinion that most people are going to want to publically identify as something that will garner nothing but prejudice, ridicule, and possibly violence? When I was in high school, there was a boy who lived nearby who liked to dance. He ended up in hospital with broken shins and ankles after a bunch of other kids ganged on him. I shudder to think what they would have done if the guy had been gay, or if anyone had found out my sexuality.
If you believe it, question it. If you question it, get an answer. If you have an answer, does that answer satisfy reality? Does it satisfy you? Probably not. For no one else will agree with you, not really.