what being apart from the law means.

[Ryantology]

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Then why offer attonement in your view?

Attonement is to bridge the gap for those who fail to meet what you have identified as a totalitarianism. Is this how you understand Tot-ism to work?
Meaning Attonement allows us to live work and function outside the absolute standard of Righteousness God has placed on us, and still be considered righteous.

You say this, and yet it never occurs to you that it's either a mistake, or intentional malice, on God's part to apply an absolute standard of righteousness to people when he never gave them the capacity to meet it.

What you call 'atonement' is really nothing but a special favor for people who accept the rule of the dictator without resistance. It has nothing to do with righteousness at all.